When I think about my twin boys, Colin and Adam, the first thing that comes to mind is how different and yet how connected they are. They just turned one, and even at this age they have their own personalities. Adam doesn’t care for pacifiers; he has a favorite towel that he chews on for comfort. Colin, on the other hand, is our cuddly baby. He wants to be held, to be snuggled close, and finds joy in being in someone’s arms.
One of the best parts of raising them has been watching how they bring out joy in others. We’ve made it a point to help them feel comfortable with different people, and now when friends come over, the boys are happy to be held and played with. Colin leans right in for snuggles, while Adam wriggles free to crawl and explore. They are already showing the world who they are—one gentle and cozy, the other independent and adventurous.
Everyday Joys and Special Rituals
Mealtimes are another highlight. Both boys love food, especially fruit. Blueberries, strawberries, watermelon, bananas—you name it. They finish their meal and wait eagerly for ‘dessert,’ which might be puffs or fresh berries. Watching their eyes light up when we bring out a bowl of fruit is a daily joy. As for toys, they often surprise us. We’ll give them boxes, lotion bottles, or homemade rattles filled with rice, and they’re just as delighted as if they had the fanciest toy.
The moment that feels most special to me is bedtime. My wife and I do everything together—brush their teeth, wash their hands and faces, tuck them into their sleep sacks. I usually hum songs like ‘Sweet Child of Mine’ as I carry them upstairs. Then comes the kiss on the forehead, the sound machine, and the quiet of the room. It’s a simple ritual, but for me it’s everything. It’s the close of a long day and a reminder that these moments won’t last forever.
Why the Early Years Matter
Like every parent, I have hopes and dreams for my boys. More than anything, I want them to be healthy, happy, and free to grow into the lives they want. When people see their photo in this campaign, I hope they see their happiness—Adam’s expressive face and Colin’s more serious but equally content presence. They are both such happy little boys, and I hope that shines through.
Of course, raising twins has its challenges. Even with ‘good kids,’ the demands double. There are moments when work deadlines and child care collide, and both boys need us at once. In those moments, having family close by has been a blessing. Our parents come once or twice a week to help, and friends with older kids have shared advice and support. I don’t know how we’d manage without that village. What I’ve learned is that babies need more than money or material things—they need presence. Someone to hold them, play with them, comfort them. Another set of hands makes all the difference.
Colin and Adam remind me every day why the earliest years matter so much. They are growing, learning, and discovering who they are. All they need is love, patience, and support—and with that, I know they’ll thrive.
