Shemika, Kentucky

From Pain to Purpose

"I lost my daughter, Zora, just days after she was born."

During my pregnancy, I was facing housing instability and trying to navigate a system where I did not feel heard. I knew something was wrong, but my concerns were dismissed. Zora arrived early and lived for only three days.

After she died, I was left grieving and trying to survive without the support I needed. There was no clear path to mental health care or follow-up services. At the moment I needed care the most, I felt invisible.

I was grieving my child while trying to survive in a system that did not see me.

Shemika

What Happens to Parents Happens to Babies

My experience showed me how deeply a parent’s well-being shapes a baby’s earliest world. Stress, trauma, and instability do not stop with adults. Babies feel it through the relationships and environments that surround them.

Believing in babies means believing that parents deserve care, too. When families are supported with compassion and trusted care, babies have a stronger foundation for healthy development.

Babies carry what their parents are carrying, even before they are born.

Shemika

A Future Built on Care

I made a promise that my daughter’s life would mean something beyond loss. I committed myself to building community-based support so that no parent would have to navigate pregnancy, birth, or early parenthood alone.

That work has included housing support, prenatal and postnatal care, maternal mental health services, and advocacy rooted in dignity and trust. The goal has always been simple: support families early and consistently, before a crisis takes hold.

Today, I continue providing maternal mental health services and building spaces where perinatal individuals can access trusted, relationship-centered support.

Believing in babies means listening to families, supporting parents and investing in the earliest relationships that shape a child’s future.

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